In the wake of legendary highlife musician Daddy Lumba’s passing, an emotional storm has resurfaced around his past relationship with his long-rumored lover and childhood companion, Theresa Abebrese.

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Recent revelations from Theresa’s family have refuted popular claims that she was forcibly married off to a wealthy man—allegations that were previously backed by one of Lumba’s closest mentors, Mama Acheampong.
Instead, a relative of Theresa Abebrese has come forward to set the record straight, insisting that it was Daddy Lumba who betrayed Theresa, not the other way around. The relative stated in a widely circulated video that the beloved musician, after relocating to Germany, ended the relationship by marrying another woman, identified as Akosua Serwaa.
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Setting the Record Straight After Years of Silence
The late Daddy Lumba, born Charles Kwadwo Fosu, was known not only for his timeless musical influence but also for the romantic mysteries surrounding some of his biggest hits. Many fans have long believed that his deep affection for Theresa Abebrese, a woman he publicly credited with influencing his early life, was at the heart of several emotional tracks, including songs filled with longing, regret, and subtle lyrical jabs.
Following the musician’s death, his godmother, Mama Acheampong, gave an account that painted Theresa’s family in a controversial light. She claimed that despite Daddy Lumba receiving sponsorship from Theresa’s father to travel abroad, Theresa was allegedly married off to a wealthy man, leaving Lumba heartbroken and betrayed.
However, the latest statements from Theresa’s family counter this narrative completely.
“Daddy Lumba Moved On First” – Family Member Reveals
In the newly released video, a close relative of Theresa Abebrese passionately dismissed the story that their family gave her hand in marriage for wealth. The relative insisted that Theresa remained committed to Lumba even after he traveled to Germany, but it was Lumba who chose to marry someone else, effectively abandoning the relationship.
“We did not marry Theresa off to any rich man. It was rather Lumba who changed when he got to Germany. He married Akosua Serwaa and stopped communicating with Theresa,” the relative said.
This revelation has sparked significant conversations across Ghanaian media and among fans who are revisiting the emotional undertones of Lumba’s music with fresh perspective.
A Love Story Turned Bittersweet Legacy
The love story between Daddy Lumba and Theresa Abebrese has long been romanticized. Fans revered their bond as a tale of sacrifice, youthful dreams, and the harsh realities of life. Theresa was known to have supported the singer through his formative years, and many even believed she would be his future wife.
But if the recent statements from her family are anything to go by, then the story takes on a completely different shape—one of disappointment, broken promises, and emotional abandonment.
Music, Memory, and Misunderstandings
Lumba’s music has always reflected complex emotions. Songs like “Theresa”, which many believe was dedicated to Abebrese, are now being reexamined. What were once seen as laments of lost love due to external betrayal might now be interpreted as expressions of personal regret or even veiled guilt.
It’s worth noting that Daddy Lumba’s personal life remained largely private. Despite decades in the spotlight, he successfully kept many details away from public scrutiny, leaving room for speculation and assumptions. Now, with his passing, more untold stories are surfacing.
The Bigger Picture: Revisiting Ghana’s Love Legends
This unfolding story sheds light not only on Daddy Lumba’s private life, but also on how legends are remembered and mythologized. The voices of those who were closest to the stars often emerge only after they’re gone, offering new angles that challenge public perceptions.
As Ghana continues to mourn the passing of one of its most iconic musical legends, the public is also being encouraged to embrace the truths of those left behind, like Theresa Abebrese and her family. Their version of events suggests that while Lumba’s contributions to music are undeniable, his personal choices may not always align with the romantic hero image many had of him.
In the end, whether fans believe Theresa was the betrayed or the betrayer, one thing is clear: the story of Daddy Lumba and Theresa Abebrese is deeply woven into the tapestry of Ghanaian music history. The revelations may change perspectives, but they also humanize a legend whose life, like his music, was full of passion, pain, and complexity.
