By GhanaNewsPage 
My cousin slept with me at age 6, I used pencils and TV remote to experiment – Popular gay recounts
Headucator, a young Ghanaian gay cum transgender, who trended online after his recent sex tape with a certain Hayford leaked, has shared his journey of self-discovery and how he came to embrace his identity.
Identified as Brince Akoto Adams, the 20-year-old gay opened up on his experiences and how he transitioned to embrace his sexuality.
He said at age six, his 17-year-old male cousin slept with him and that was the beginning of his journey into practicing gay.
“I was six watching porn on my male cousin’s laptop. I intended to watch Hary Porter on his laptop but I chanced on the porn and was fascinated by it so I ended up watching it. Then he caught me and told us to demonstrate it. So, we did, it was painful.
“I went into the position of the woman and he asked if I’ve done it before and I said no. I also begged him not to tell my mom. This is supposed to be traumatic but I’ve got to a point where I make jokes out of everything,” he stated in a discussion on the Rants and Bants podcast.
He said after that one-time experience, he started inserting things into himself for satisfaction until he went to secondary school, where he had a few real encounters.
“Later on, I started inserting things there from pencils to TV remote, and so on. That was when I realized that there is a feeling in this kind of thing.
“Growing up, I went to a boy’s school and I had to bottle this femininity. I know some of my mates from school are saying I wasn’t like this in school but even in school I was sleeping with a couple of boys. The nice ones and the rich ones. I started accepting myself at age 17, I started being trans at 17,” he added.
Headucator, now identifying as a full-time international prostitute, stated that he travels to different countries to meet the needs of his clients.
He narrated his ordeal at one of the borders.
“I travel to other countries. Recently, I disguised myself as a Muslim and traveled by road to Nigeria. I had to bribe the driver to tell the men at the border that I had left my Ghana card behind so they wouldn’t discover that I am originally a man,” he said.
When asked if his mother was aware of all this, he mentioned that he told her about his sexuality at a later stage.
Headucator, raised by his grandmother while his single mother hustled in another region, said,
“I told her at a very late stage. She was broken. She said she knew a day was coming when I’d tell her about my sexuality because I was different. She was in Accra hustling and I was in Agona Swedru with my grandmother. I don’t know my dad, I’ve never seen him before. My mom is my dad at the same time.”
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