Nollywood actress Yvonne Jegede has spoken candidly about her views on marriage, revealing that while she is not completely closed off to the idea, she is no longer actively seeking to remarry.
The 42 year old actress made this known during a recent interview on Naija FM, where she described marriage as “overrated” and questioned why many relationships seem to struggle once a legal union is involved.
According to Yvonne, she has observed a pattern where couples date peacefully for many years, only for things to fall apart shortly after marriage. She explained that the pressure and expectations that come with marriage often introduce problems that were not there before.
“I’ve seen so many people date for 15 years, 17 years, and they marry for two years, three years, and then break up. Sometimes you go dey wonder say shebi they for just stay and no marry,” she said.
The actress noted that marriage often brings a level of intolerance between partners, as both parties begin to strongly assert their rights and expectations.
“A lot of intolerance dey. The wife will be claiming her rights, the husband will do the same,” Yvonne explained.
Because of this, she believes that love and companionship do not necessarily need marriage to thrive. In her words, finding someone you genuinely love and choosing to cohabit peacefully may sometimes be better than rushing into marriage.
“I think it is better to find who you love and just cohabit with them,” she added.
Despite her strong opinions, Yvonne was careful to clarify that she is not completely shutting the door on marriage. She said she has simply learned not to force it or make it the center of her happiness.
“If it comes, but I’m not looking for it. I have learned not to say never,” she noted.
Yvonne Jegede was previously married to rapper and actor Olakunle Abounce Fawole, popularly known as Abounce. Their marriage ended in 2019, less than a year after they tied the knot.
In past interviews, the actress opened up about the challenges she faced in the union. She revealed that financial imbalance played a major role in their separation, stating that she was the primary provider in the marriage. Yvonne also said she felt her ex husband struggled to handle or respect her position, which eventually took a toll on the relationship.
She has also spoken about regretting her decision to choose love over financial stability, describing it as a hard lesson that shaped her current outlook on relationships and marriage.
Now, Yvonne Jegede appears focused on personal growth, peace of mind, and living life on her own terms. While marriage is no longer a goal she is chasing, she remains open to love, just without the pressure of expectations or timelines.
